Real Life

I have two blogger accounts. One for this blog, and one for my "real life" blog. A few weeks ago I posted using this account on a "real life" account. It's happened before, but usually I catch it right when I do it. This time it stayed all weekend.

I have thought about deleting this blog, but the idea of doing that makes me sad. This has been such a good outlet for me, and I really don't want to lose it. I could start a new blog, but I've found a support group here.

After much thought, and a little discussion with Te, I've decided to keep this blog. Yes, Te has an addiction. It has been a real struggle, as you can see if you've read much of my blog. It's not a fun thing to deal with, but it's real and we are determined to overcome it.

There are setbacks, and there are victories. I think that is the case for any addiction.

For those of you who know me in real life, I hope that you do not feel uncomfortable with your new knowledge. If you do, please don't read this blog anymore. Te and I are both willing to talk privately to anyone who wants to discuss pornography addiction in a respectful way.

Te is a good man who is working very hard to overcome something that is very hard to overcome.

If our experience helps one person to come forward with their own addiction, or helps one spouse feel able to keep going, it will all have been worth it.