Trying To Heal

Why Me? Why not me. Bad things happen to good people all the time. It's how we deal with the bad things that makes us who we are.

Tuesday, September 05, 2006

More good days

We had a nice labor day weekend. I spent some time alone with Te's mom. We were camping, and I was helping her make dinner one afternoon. She asked how things were going. I think she would like to feel more involved. The sisters-in-law have our discussions about things, but she has been left out a little bit.

I told her that things were going well. I told her about my experience with Te where I was really nervous, and told him that I couldn't handle being lied too again right now, so if there was anything he needed to tell me, to please do it now, and how he said that he had nothing to hide. (sorry about the run on sentence...)

That made her feel good, and she told me several times how glad she was that I was sticking with him and being so understanding. I think she is really afraid that one of the daughters-in-law would divorce her son because of their addiction. I told her that it was hard sometimes, but that I loved Te, and that we were working on things. I said that there is never a guarantee that life will be easy. There's no guarantee that life would be any better without Te, and I do think that it would be much harder in many ways.

Life doesn't need to be better. It's pretty good right now. We've had a long weekend of good days too add to the collection.

3 Comments:

At 6:18 AM, Blogger tomhhhh said...

I've learned that there is a strong force in our day to "liberate" from the struggle. There have been so many people that think that divorce is the answer. Even church leaders. But we have seen the effects of divorce in our siblings. We have read and pondered this topic. There are way too many that give into it too easily. There are a lot of very good men that get caught in the tar pit of addiction. It can destroy families. The threat is real and serious. But I believe that the Lord supports the fight for a good man. You can do it. Te is worth it!

 
At 2:35 PM, Blogger KingJaymz said...

I am so glad to hear that things are going very well. I am sure that takes a real load off of your mind.

I envy the closeness you have to your family members. Mine is a fractured family for this reason or that. I hope to provide a climate to foster the change necessary so that my children and their spouses can have the relationship with us that you have with your and Te's folks.

Keep on keepin' on.

 
At 2:39 PM, Blogger KingJaymz said...

PS I am totally cool with being the only non-porn addiction related site link on your blog. Everyone needs a little frivolous fun now and then.

 

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